As we reached the 2013 new year, I was reflecting on what I learned in 2012.
I feel like I learned a lot this year– particularly a lot about myself and what I am looking for as I traveled around South America (and am now back in Colombia).
When 2012 started, I was thinking it would be the year where I started bringing in loads of online income to support my dream of becoming location independent. I did start bringing in some income with some projects, but it was a lot less than I had envisioned.
I had a number of failed projects, including a terrible business partner who did absolutely nothing for me but rob me of my time and energy. I feel grateful that I finally cut the chords and officially ended everything with him a few months back.
Not all was failure, however. For example, I managed to post on this blog consistently this year, and as a result my traffic increased 4-fold. I’ve been getting a lot of emails from readers, which is a good sign. I might be doing something right. 🙂
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But what I really think I’ve learned in 2012 is something that I think most people don’t learn unless they run a successful business or realize how to really become wealthy.
It is something which the average Joe doesn’t get, because he looks at things only one dimensionally.
What I learned is this: the idea that low-cost is the default way to go is completely wrong. Completely wrong.
My life these days has a different course… I have stopped looking for the lowest-cost hostels because I am sick of sweaty, smelly dorms and dirty bathrooms. I have stopped looking for the lowest-cost transportation because I am sick of wasting my precious time on a bus. I have stopped looking for free information on the internet because I am sick of the amateurs who really haven’t proved themselves to me… I now purchase from people I trust.
I have stopped spending my time in countries that I don’t like, even if they are cheap.
Instead, I have started to spend MORE money because I believe nowadays I think in a multidimensional picture of value.
Take a concrete example– Several weeks ago, I was in Peru and needed to get from Cusco to Lima. The bus ride is about 20-22 hours. The plane ride is about 1.5 hours.
The bus costs something like $45. The plane cost $120.
I took the plane.
I took the plane because my time is valuable to me, and I essentially got one full day of my life back if I paid an extra $75. This would allow me to continue with my various life projects, work on my business, write new posts, explore Lima sooner, move my life forward etc. With a bus ride, on the other hand, I’ve lost one day of my life.
You see, a typical ‘budget’ traveler is only concerned about one thing: cost. He will take the bus because it’s the cheapest.
Now, I have about the same monetary budget as a ‘budget traveler’ but I took the plane because I value my time.
Time is the one resource you cannot make more of. You are only given a limited number of days on this planet… How much would you pay for an extra day of your life?
A multidimensional view of value also extends to getting business smarts…
So when I buy products now (or sell them), I no longer look for “lowest cost” to be the major part of the equation. I look for products which will best solve a problem that I have at the current time, or that provide me with a decent return on my investment. (There’s a saying in business circles that competing to offer the lowest-priced product is a ‘losing battle’… Couldn’t agree more!)
So, if my problem is getting from point A to point B, a plane is the answer for me if it substantially gives me my time back (like it does from Cusco to Lima!).
Or if I am going through the trouble of processing and fulfilling an order for someone, I make sure I’m not going to be earning just a few dollars for doing so.
Or if another place in the world has 10x faster internet, I would seriously consider moving there because I get my time back.
This also extends to other considerations about your life in general. For example, I was unhappy living in Ecuador in late 2011. I was spending less, yes. But I was not happy.
How much would you pay to be happy?
So you see, my life was being affected by this one-dimensional view of value, i.e. that low-cost is everything. It was poisoning everything I did, and stealing my time and happiness.
In 2012, I finally said goodbye to the low-cost-is-all option.
If there’s something valuable I need or want, I’ve realized the answer is not to sit back and only think of carefully preserving my current cash stash. The answer is to hustle, earn more money, and create the life I’ve always dreamed of.
And isn’t that what you really want? 🙂